sex, pleasure, and relational coaching

A tailored healing experience for your sensual exploration and liberation

we get to the root of sex, gender, and relational IDEOLOGIES that are no longer serving you

We gently challenge those narratives with questions, care, and psychoeducation. This post-modern approach helps clients formulate their own authentic liberating beliefs more in alignment with who they are, or who they dream themselves to be.

We help our clients plant the new ideas and thoughts they desire in order to live a fulfilling sensual, romantic, & sexual life

Clients learn to hone in on their sense of self, their values, and who they want to be as sexual and relational beings. Our goal is to connect our clients to their primal relationship with pleasure- so they may live a life able to advocate for that pleasure inside and outside of the bedroom.

areas we work with:

  • kink / BDSM 

  • low sexual desire 

  • desire discrepancy 

  • sexual communication 

  • low sexual satisfaction 

  • lack of pleasure 

  • body image issues 

  • queering sex 

  • sexual dissatisfaction in long term relationships 

  • comfort with masturbation 

  • anxiety related to sex / identity

  • sexual confidence 

  • inability to orgasm 

  • exploring a queer identity 

  • ethical non-monogamy 

  • polyamorous structures 

  • monogamous structures

  • jealousy 

  • sexual identity 

  • routine sex 

  • sexual pain conditions 

  • vaginismus 

  • sexual shame

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from our clients

  • Working with Clarke has helped me better observe my relationship with my sexuality, myself, and others. We’ve covered a wide range of topics, but I think the most impactful aspect for me is how we work to shed away the walls and layers of my defense / coping mechanisms that I had developed so well to the point I lost my ability to connect with myself and my body. “Pleasure work” has helped me tap into and own my vulnerability and I have been able to appreciate more the richness of my relationships and engage in them. Working with Clarke not only has provided me a safe space to explore and work with different ideas, but she has been a mentor, witness, cheerleader to my growth and journey.

    —T

  • The best part of working with Clarke is how real she is with me. It’s like she can see how my brain is processing information and give me feedback in a digestible (and fun!) way. She cultivates such a safe and gentle space for me to brain dump or debate black and white thoughts. 12/10 would recommend if you’ve been thinking about seeking services!!

    — S

  • I worked a few months with Clarke and it had such a big impact on me! To finally talk to someone where you don’t feel judged for your sexual preferences, who helps you to explore yourself more and gives you great exercises/ advice was exactly what I needed 🙏🏼

    — A

  • Clarke has been an absolute joy and such a pleasure to work with! She is not only extremely professional but unbelievably kind. I really feel like during our sessions I’m talking to one of my closest friends. This has allowed me to open up and have deeper discoveries about myself and my journey. She has a a wonderful way of making you feel seen and heard as well as offering guidance 🤍 My self view has completely changed since working with her and I look forward to every single one of our sessions! Starting my therapy journey with Clarke is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made 😊

    — B

  • I have been working with Clarke for a couple of years now and I cannot speak highly enough of her. From the very commencement of our therapeutic relationship, she made me feel safe, welcome, understood, validated and motivated. I came to her with a very specific goal that I thought was truly impossible, to orgasm, as well as the desire to deepen my relationship with my pleasure generally. Two years on, I have achieved both of my goals!!! My pleasure has expanded beyond what I ever thought was capable in my body and it has impacted my life so beyond sexuality and relationships. I am so grateful to have been able to work with Clarke. I know without a doubt that I would not be the pleasure centric person I am without our work together. Every single person could benefit from speaking to Clarke, if only to experience the beautiful way she sees sensuality and pleasure in the world.

    — C

  • I’ve never had someone so qualified, powerful and intelligent sit with me in open vulnerability, and champion me to face hard things with grace and empathy, like Clarke has. She has helped me grow from, grow with, and grow into myself. She artfully weaves the latest psychosexual science and political and social analysis with deep empathy, wisdom and humour to help support you in any and all of your hopes/goals/dreams for yourself. AND she’ll challenge you and pull you up when you’re not doing yourself, the world or others justice. I couldn’t recommend her more for anything you may be struggling with, hoping to achieve, or simply wondering about in yourself 💖

    — M

  • Clarke is exceptional at what she does, and I'm very grateful to have been recommended sessions with her. She listens attentively. She is kind, gentle and respectful. She's also not afraid to push back and challenge things where it will be helpful. Clarke is also incredibly patient when I don't show up to sessions as my best self, which is so invaluable. I have very much appreciated the work that we have been able to do, and will continue to do.

    — B

  • As a cishet male, I’m fully aware of how liberating your content and business model is. I feel it every time I learn something from you. Please keep expanding and challenging our minds. Sometimes what we need most is the last place we want to look. The way to save the world is to uplift and support women, the vulnerable, gays, they’s, etc. I also believe it’s part of the divine masculine role to offer support and stability to the community. Thank you for doing you. We all need it.

  • I had sex yesterday morning AND the night before, and I ORGASMED EACH TIME. BECAUSE I STILL PRACTICE BEING PRESENT BECAUSE OF YOU. Not to be weird, but I think of you every time I have sex— in the least weird way possible HAHA [I’m always like CLARKE WOULD WANT ME TO BE PRESENT RIGHT NOW STOP THINKING ABOUT GROCERIES] <3 -C

  • You had recommended my bf and I coming up with lists on how to initiate sex, how we like to get initiated for sex, etc— and we had a really nice conversation about it in December, and we both learned so much. This past weekend I went to his place, and was super emotional just because of everything going on in my life personally with grieving, but we shared a beautiful moment together emotionally and things just kind of led to another (per my list that he remembered!!!) and we probably had the best sex we’ve ever had, and I just want to say THANK YOU!

  • I’ve been wanting a belly ring since I was 14, but got talked out of it, because it was seen as “trashy”, and “what will it look like when you’re pregnant?”, but you’ve taught me to do whatever makes me happy and confident, so 10 years later here I am, and I literally can't thank you enough. My tummy has always been an insecurity of mine, but now it’s bedazzled, and I love it. THANK YOU THANK YOU. Can’t wait for our next session! -R

  • The world needs to know what an impact you have on people! I can’t believe how much your words have stuck with me just from our few sessions, and through following your Instagram. It’s really amazing, and you have such a gift of getting through to people. -B

  • I wanted to thank you— Since I finished with my dilators I’ve been having GREAT casual sex, and incredible sexting with a guy I’ve been talking to, and I’m so so happy. I genuinely never thought I would enjoy sex, but now I’m confident as HELL, and out here living my best life, and it’s literally all thanks to you. Thank you so much, because you are genuinely life changing. -E

  • I am so grateful for all of our sessions. The other week I had two orgasms in one day!!! Couldn’t believe it! Before seeing you, I never had an orgasm with myself or partner. Thank you so much! -P

  • I DID IT!!!!!! I orgasmed last night! Thank you for all the help you’ve given me in getting back into my body, focusing on pleasure and cultivating a more pleasurable life in general. Whilst sexual liberation is a journey, and orgasm not the destination ;] I’m really proud of myself and happy right now, so thank you! -S

  • It's insane to me that this time a year ago I was too anxious to take my clothes off in front of people or say anything I liked in bed to someone & now I'm out here literally running the game & it's incredible! YOU'RE incredible! -W

  • I had known how lovely and passionate of a human Clarke was before I ever went to her for coaching services, but I didn’t know what to expect from our session. I have been nervous and awkward around sex / pleasure for most of my life, and was SO thankful to have Clarke as my pleasure coach! Her confidence around the female experience and anatomy made me comfortable from the start. She made me feel extremely secure about my past sexual experiences, whether positive or negative. She also gave me tools and thought exercises to further connect my mind, body, and spirit as a very sexual being. She is one smart cookie too! Clarke has so much knowledge and working with her is a delight. Ladies, booking with her will be the best investment into yourself. -K

  • I had one session with Clarke when I was in a rut and she not only provided a listening and understanding ear but also provided me with honest and workable solutions to my problem. I left my session with a more thorough understanding of my own body and female desire and continue to work with the tips and exercises Clarke provided me. In short, I would recommend anyone who thinks they may need a sex coach to pull the trigger— you won’t regret it! Clarke is amazing! -T

  • I stopped seeing a therapist because the work Clarke has been doing with me has been more beneficial to my wellbeing and my relationship than anything the therapist was offering. Clarke’s gentle persona is warm and welcoming. She does not ever make me feel uncomfortable - more so, she challenges me to look at obstacles in new perspectives. We have not even started digging into better sex, because better sex starts with a better foundation in yourself and in your relationship. Clarke is more than a sex coach, she’s a life coach for embracing strong feminine energy and utilizing that for a better relationship with yourself, a partner, or others. Clarke and I have recently started bringing my partner into our sessions and it has been so beneficial! Really looking forward to keep working with such a sweet soul. -G

  • I feel like a truly sexually liberated woman. With all the work that we did, I’ve gained so much confidence in my femininity and my sexuality! Things have been going super well in that area of my life, and for the first time in forever I feel so incredibly comfortable sharing my body and my vulnerability with my partner. I can speak up, share my needs, and ask questions. All the things we’ve talked about! I’m so grateful for you and your incredible commitment to me, and all your clients, the work you do is so important, and it’s changed my life. -N

  • Thank you Clarke, There is something beyond your knowledge about sexuality and sex and the guidance you give... it is deeper than that. It is as if you were born to do this. To awaken that which has been asleep- had been put to sleep- as if you were from a time before it were. All dressed in pink and a visible product of our time- but not. You have awoken something in me. Something more powerful and more subtle than I can pin. Each session opens me to a possibility I was unaware of- a different space In my body- the way I move- and each time I come closer to myself- to whom I am to be. It is clear you are passionate about your work-teaching about sexuality, but there is something else... such beautiful work, Clarke. I am grateful- one million roses. -O

  • I have been a happy client of Clarke for about 5-6 months now and I have never been so happy I made it priority to work on my sexual well being. Whether it’s working on past sexual trauma, learning how to be a better partner, or learning how to give pleasure to myself, Clarke has been helping me through it all ever since we have started having personal coaching sessions!! I always feel like I am in a safe space and that I can really tell her everything with absolutely no judgments! Because of these sessions I have more clear goals and visions of how I want to carry myself in this world and overall these sessions have made me really start to take inner work more seriously. Clarke is warm and welcomes anyone with open arms and I highly recommend taking the time to invest in your sex life with such an awesome person who is so passionate about what she does! -M

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